Do You have a love story to write?
Perhaps you have a love story to heal?
Then this is your show!
We will dive into his book:
Safe to Love Again: How to Release the Pain of Past Relationships
and Create the Love You Deserve
By Gary D. Salyer, Ph.D
If you have struggled finding, holding or maintaining deep, safe and long lasting
love in your life, you may be very surprised at the reason. It’s not because you’ve
been jinxed. You DESERVE to have a long-lasting deep love.
But everyone has a “love style” that plays out throughout their lives, according to
Salyer, an underlying subconscious approach to love. These are not learned traits.
They are manifested from “permissions” or “rights” that our infant selves did or
did not acquire in the first year of life based on what we internalized and perceived
from the actions of our parents, says Salyer.
Those six rights are:
* The Right to Exist
* The Right to Have Your Needs Met
* The Right to Separate and Belong
* The Right to Create Your Own Experience
* The Right to Assert Your Voice and Choice
* The Right to Love and Be Loved
And it all depends on how you are wired!
Salyer’s eye-opening and insightful book cites case histories of his clients, his
own experience, a body of research called attachment theory and years of client
successes that have proven how the absence of these rights consistently attract and
create specific types of love experiences.