#79: How to Spice Up Your Relationship with Bonding Based Lovemaking

It can be tough to keep the spark alive in a relationship, especially when we're busy or feeling distant from our partner.

When sex and intimacy start to fade, it can be easy to feel like we're not close anymore. This can lead to frustration and further distance.

Have you ever heard of Bonding Based Lovemaking? It's a simple way to bring intimacy back into your relationship. This week in the Love Shack, we're going to teach you how to get out of your own way so you can really connect with your partner. So if you're ready to spice up your relationship, this episode is for you!

Oftentimes, the topic of sex and intimacy can bring up feelings of anxiety and dread, especially when our day-to-day interactions and connection with our partners have become strained and complicated. Sex is usually the first thing to wane or stop altogether, as the closeness we once felt begins to fall away. We make excuses, and keep coming up with new ways to say "not tonight!" or become increasingly frustrated when we are NOT experiencing any intimacy while making up stories about why this is happening.

So, in our relentless commitment to serving you, we are always exploring new principles and wonderful people to bring into the Love Shack. Our guest this week, Carolin Hauser, the creator of Bonding Based Lovemaking, is joining us on the show to talk about this innovative approach.

If you are looking for ways to spice up your relationship, please don't miss this conversation. We're going to cover how you can bring stability, harmony, and romance back into your intimate relationships to overcome destructive patterns of sex that lead to us becoming roommates instead of lovers.

Carolin Hauser is a German-trained Naturopathic Doctor, Humanistic Psychotherapist, and Family Constellations Facilitator. She is the author of the award-winning book "Blossom: Your Seven Steps To Sexual Healing" and the creator of the Pleasure IQ and Blissful marriage Method. Carolin is an internationally recognized speaker and teacher on the subjects of spirituality, relationships, emotional healing, and Bonding Based Lovemaking.

In this episode, we're covering several key topics about how to spice up your relationship and reignite the intimacy between you and your partner, including:

  • What is Bonding Based Lovemaking?
  • How to get my partner interested if their sex drive is lower than mine?
  • How our hormones influence how we see our partners and what to do to keep seeing our partners in a loving light.
  • How to bring stability and harmony to intimate relationships.

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